Let’s meet
These sessions break down the machinery that keeps the search alive, sometimes gradually, sometimes all at once. What remains is what you could never expect, ineffable and better left unworded, to never sound like another promise.
We meet in honest, private conversation about what’s actually here — without trying to improve or transform it. There’s no hierarchy. We both take part in what often feels like a natural undoing.
These meetings themselves are what works. They cut through the machinery of seeking not by delivering answers, but by making space for the whole thing to fall apart. Not from effort, but from being seen.
What We’ll Do
Something shifts right here as we talk — not later, not after integration. It’s not about insight or guidance. It’s the meeting itself that loosens things.
This rarely happens once and stays broken. Seeking creeps back in with new disguises. Spotting that — and not getting pulled in — is something I’ve gotten good at by doing this a lot. So we meet again if needed. Not to chase a state, but to see where the old patterns are sneaking back in.
How this works
I try not to talk about what ending the search brings, because turning it into a promise only feeds the idea that there’s somewhere to get. Neither of us controls how it happens. We’re just participating in something that already wants to fall apart.
At some point, I’ll probably suggest you try this kind of meeting with someone close to you. It’s the format that helps — the honesty, the unraveling, the shared bewilderment.
What happens then
Format
Meetings
Sessions are one hour Zoom video calls. No preparation needed, no homework assigned, no follow-up required unless you want it.
Many people find a single conversation shifts something fundamental. Others need several for the structure to fully collapse. Each undoing unfolds at its own pace.
Pricing
The first three sessions are paid with a Stripe transfer of $100 upon booking. After that, meetings are free for as long as you need them.
By then we're more friends than anything else, and I don't want anyone developing a financial dependency on these conversations. Reach out if price is a concern.
Next Steps
This doesn’t end in finding. It ends in collapse — like tracking some wild insight only to have it turn around and flatten you.
After that, life goes on. Ordinary, effortless, undramatic. Sometimes we still talk — to share stories, to laugh, or to sit in the kind of silence that doesn’t need to mean anything.
Still unsure? That’s normal.
If you’re tired of chasing answers that don’t hold up,
if the whole thing is starting to feel exhausting,
just book a time.
We’ll look at what’s actually going on. You don’t have to figure it out first.