About
Marcin
A retired seeker. I hold one-to-one meetings about the end of seeking, by donation and open to anyone.
There's no awakening story to share here, and no transformation to market. Those stories are plenty, and mostly they feed more seeking. For me, the hope of arriving somewhere collapsed on itself, and what was left is ordinary, alive and right here.
Someone once sat with me and looked at my seeking while it was running. Now I do the same for others, as a basic courtesy. We meet one on one, over video, and look honestly at whatever is keeping the search going.
The meetings are by donation. Come once, or as often as you like.
Marcin
What we look at
The conversations stay close to what's happening right now: breath, warmth, sound, the next thought arriving. Most people come with a question, a practice or a sense of where they are on the path. We look at that together while it's running, until the pull of the next step loosens and what's here is left uncovered.
I call the approach apophatic psychology. It works by subtraction: instead of adding a new belief or practice, we notice what keeps the search going and let it fall away. You can come with any background or none, and we keep the language plain.
“I am completely ready to drop every spiritual belief and kill the hope of arrival.”
No one, ever
What people are saying
“I was entangled in a never ending analysis paralysis with my spiritual practices. Talking with Marcin helped dissolve the illusion of a desired result at the end of seeking. I am grateful for the sound reasoning and practical advice he has shared from his own experience. He helped facilitate, through simple conversation, the sweeping away of old ideas and the result was what has always been here the whole time.”
“Marcin came into my experience just as my seeking had reached a crescendo. More than anything, I was exhausted. As a former seeker himself, Marcin met me where I was at. More than a specific person or idea or instruction, I just needed a safe place to unravel. For me, that space was meeting with Marcin. It’s like I was drowning in 3 feet of water and he was calmly standing there suggesting I simply put my feet down.”
“Sessions with Marcin have been magical. It’s difficult to express in words exactly what takes place, however it left me with a sense of lightness and clarity that I was pulled towards. It felt like a return to a home from which I never left. For that I’m ever so grateful to Marcin.”
In October 2026 I wrote to everyone I had met and asked for an honest answer: were our meetings a net positive, net zero or net negative? Here is a selection of what came back, shared anonymously.
“There’s an ease and effortlessness in the conversations, which we have likened to going for a swim together in the same clear water.”
“Again and again, looking for something turned up nothing, and then that nothing turned out to be the thing. I also valued that you never wrapped it up for me. Just the question, left open. I’m grateful for what opened up, and honest that it isn’t finished for me.”
“You speak from direct experience, but you never try to buttonhole with an idea or point of view. You listen with great care and respond with great thoughtfulness.”
“I lived an anxious life and was always seeking for peace, but I thought it was in the next. Now I know the peace is always here. I still falter sometimes, but not for long.”
“Initially, there was some disappointment that this was it. That my whole search, for many years, could have all been for something as simple as what was noticed. However, fundamentally, I was profoundly relieved that my search had ended.”
“You stopped me in my tracks when I started to get into story mode: ‘When we start a sentence with “so then…” it means we’re in the next again.’ It’s stuck with me.”
“This has helped me feel less like a spiritual failure and more like another person playing their part in this great tragicomedy. It feels lovely to just exist as an ordinary person without chasing a carrot on a stick anymore.”
“You were the first person I ever talked to about the non-duality part of my life, and it was refreshing to finally discuss this topic with someone other than myself.”
“I’d usually request a meeting when I was caught up in past and future thinking. What I benefited from was that it brought everything directly into this, whatever appears to be happening.”
“The first few meetings, there were some expectations, the idea that you have a new perspective that I don’t. Then it was more like you’re a friend, truly, and it’s so nice to talk to someone where I sense I’m not being judged.”
“It brought me space when thoughts were too loud for me to let them just be irrelevant and meaningless. Infinite spacetime is soothing, then nothing needs to be soothed.”
“The presence that came out of your being in contact with your own direct experience was more clarifying than what we spoke about.”
“I always felt a sense of relief and calmness and emptiness during our discussions. The personal self seems to be losing its heaviness, to a degree.”
“It helped me, but not so much. After the session something was clear, but it gets blurry again after a short while.”
“There is the experience of presence and joy about you. It is helpful and very pleasant.”
The machinery breaks down when two people look honestly at what’s been here without seeking.
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